December character trait

Position: Four Corners Character Council

Gratefulness vs. unthankfulness

Letting others know by my words and actions how they have benefited my life. Gratefulness is recognizing how the efforts of others have benefited one’s life and making known to them how much their...

DATE: Nov. 13, 2012 | COLUMN: Character Council

Obedience vs. willfulness

Quickly and cheerfully carrying out the direction of those who are responsible for me.Obedience is commonly viewed in terms of one’s respect for those in authority. Obedience also refers to one’s...

DATE: Oct. 2, 2012 | COLUMN: Character Council

Truthfulness vs. deception

Earning future trust by accurately reporting past facts. A truthful person gives a report that is faithful to the facts. This may be seen in actions as well as words. Truthfulness begins by being...

DATE: Sept. 4, 2012 | COLUMN: Character Council

Alertness vs. carelessness

Being aware of what is taking place around me so I can have the right responses.Alertness is a simple yet powerful concept. Used wisely, alertness to surrounding circumstances can give you an edge...

DATE: Aug. 4, 2012 | COLUMN: Character Council

Decisiveness vs. procrastination

The ability to recognize key factors and finalize difficult decisions.Decisiveness is the ability to cut quickly to the heart of a matter. It involves getting to the fundamental issues and making a...

DATE: July 5, 2012 | COLUMN: Character Council

Honor vs. disrespect

Respecting others because of the higher authorities they represent.Honor is the character quality that guides a person’s proper relationship with authorities on all levels. Honor begins with the...

DATE: June 6, 2012 | COLUMN: Character Council

Wisdom vs. foolishness

Seeing and responding to life situations from a perspective that transcends my current circumstances.Building wisdom is more than book learning and requires more than education. It combines an...

DATE: May 3, 2012 | COLUMN: Character Council

Deference vs. rudeness

Limiting my freedom so I do not offend the tastes of those around me. Deference is “limiting my freedom so I do not offend.” It is voluntarily surrendering one’s own place or privilege in order to...

DATE: Feb. 9, 2012 | COLUMN: Character Council

Availability vs. self-centeredness

Making my own schedule and priorities secondary to the wishes of those I serve.Availability is the quality of one who stands ready to contribute his or her own strength or worth to someone else. It...

DATE: Jan. 5, 2012 | COLUMN: Character Council

Benevolence vs. selfishness

Giving to others’ basic needs without having, as my motive, personal reward.The spirit of benevolence is the spirit of absolute selflessness. As such, it goes “against the grain” more than any...

DATE: Dec. 3, 2011 | COLUMN: Character Council

Dependability vs. inconsistency

Fulfilling what I consented to do, even if it means unexpected sacrifice. The character quality of dependability is foundational to achieving independence. It is by proving oneself trustworthy,...

DATE: Oct. 1, 2011 | COLUMN: Character Council

Thoroughness vs. incompleteness

Knowing what factors will diminish the effectiveness of my work or words if neglected. Thoroughness is being aware of what details are important in each situation, an awareness that will often make...

DATE: Sept. 3, 2011 | COLUMN: Character Council

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